• Asking for a Friend: When Can I Forget a Friend?

    Olive answers the latest "Asking for a Friend": when can I say goodbye to a friendship?

    Asking for a Friend: Proselytizing for Professional Help

    Olive answers the latest Asking for a Friend: how do I help my friend who is too involved in her parents' drama?

    Asking for a Friend: Where to Draw the Line at Lies

    Dear Olive, My best friend lies about everything. It was easy to ignore when she was just bragging about rich …

    Asking for a Friend: Sad in Grad School

    Dear Olive, I spent more than eight years on the road to becoming a scientist with a dream of a …

    Asking for a Friend: Confounded by the Cosmos

    Dear Olive,  How do I reconcile the fact that I am a tiny insignificant speck of dust floating through the …

    Asking for a Friend: I Can See the Stress from Here

    Dear Olive, My 12-year-old niece is SO stressed about school. She puts tons of pressure on herself, studies incredibly hard, …

    Asking for a Friend: What If I’m Ross?

    Dear Olive, I keep falling for the wrong people — people who end up being emotionally unavailable, though it’s truly …

    Asking for a Friend: Getting Over Not Getting Along

    Dear Olive, I don’t like my best friend’s boyfriend. He’s not evil, but we just don’t click. I find his …

    Asking for a Friend: I’ve Grown Up, But Not Apart

    Dear Olive,  I’m trying to set boundaries with my mother. She’s caring, supportive, and my best friend, yet her meddling …

    Asking for a Friend: Being Solid Without Being Stuck

    Dear Olive, I have been the “solid” one my whole life, the person who takes care of everyone, an amazing …